Jun 01 2009
Crossdressing, what wrong with it?
I am 15 and I like to wear girls clothes. I wear panties, tights, skirts, dresses, blouses, heels, make up, and a wig. I only wear these when im home alone. I am NOT GAY 100% NOT. I play football and baseball and I am very good at both of them. I often fantasize about having sex with hot girls at my school. I like to wear girls clothes. Men get critisized when wearing girls clothes, but girls are allowed to wear mens clothes. Whats wrong with men wearing womans clothes?
I am not a girl trapped in a boys body and I dont want a sex change. I want to get married and have kids. I just like wearing girls clothes thats all
There is nothing wrong with cross-dressing, I think more guys should give it a try, actually I thing every guy should dress-up as a girl at least once just to see what it's like to be a girl. Plus, I wish society was more acceptable of men wearing women's clothes. When I was young I would fantasize about having sex with the hot girls in school too, but what I really wanted to do, besides getting in their panties, was to wear their panties & dress-up in their clothes. I did get the chance to get a few cute classmates to dress me up in their clothes o gender bender days & Halloween too. But what I really enjoyed were the womanless beauty pageants during my high school years and it always amazed me how much the girls wanted to help the guys dress-up as girls.
I don't think there's anything wrong with men wearing women's clothes & more men should try wearing women's clothes & spending a day or two as a woman.
jk
on 01 Jun 2009 at 7:43 am
Sometimes the cross gets a little too heavy
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on 01 Jun 2009 at 8:09 am
Do what makes you happy.
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on 01 Jun 2009 at 8:35 am
Nothing wrong with it at all! Though you'd come in for a lot of flack from people who don't understand, so it's best to do it in private.
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on 01 Jun 2009 at 8:57 am
Nothing wrong with it……………
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on 01 Jun 2009 at 9:29 am
i agree with you
i dont think anything is wrong with it do what ever makes you happy just dont get caught or youll be in a world of ppl making fun of you.
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on 01 Jun 2009 at 10:14 am
Good for you! I would love to have a friend like you to go shopping whit.
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on 01 Jun 2009 at 10:36 am
only that society says it is not proper for a guy to dress as a girl., but old rules of society are constantly being challenged and broken down so fear not, you and the hundreds of others who like to cross dress may soon be able to without everyone thinking you are weird.
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on 01 Jun 2009 at 11:05 am
hmm,
idk.
i dont crossdress
i genderfuck though.
i dress like a guy dressed as a woman.
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on 01 Jun 2009 at 11:44 am
I'm a lot older than you, but I tried once when I was a lot younger and was so scared about what it might mean that I stayed away from it. Now I've started getting the urges again to dress like a woman and I have absolutely no desire to be with anyone BUT a woman, so i wouldn't worry about it
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on 01 Jun 2009 at 12:25 pm
is about society perceiving women as lower beings. A MAN cannot put himself down to that level. Cross dressing is not accepted for that reason. I think you misunderstand what being gay is though, I wear heels, purses, makeup, have long nails, and long hair which i go to the salon to do, I live with a woman and am not interested in men. You play sports that is great. Being gay is about who turns you on, female or male bodies, genitalia etc. If it is women then you are just a "Transvestite" and there is NOTHING wrong with that. Just be upfront a clear with your partner and know you will have a hard time (due to society) in finding a girl who will understand that your manliness has nothing to do with the clothes you wear. If you feel not manly at all but like a woman inside, then you might be a trans gender person and might need help understanding who you are. Still there wouldn't be ANYTHING WRONG at all with you.
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on 01 Jun 2009 at 1:06 pm
Cross dressing (either men wearing clothes normally reserved for women or women wearing clothes normally reserved for men) is considered a "deviant behavior". Having said that, understand that deviant is NOT wrong, bad, homosexual, or anything else. It means that the behavior is considered outside the "norm" for a particular society.
The vast majority of crossdressers are not gay, although they may have fantasies about being dressed and having guys hit on them or cuddle with them (most would never go through with such a fantasy because of the uncertainty of it) they are attracted to women, rather than men. The difference between the transvestite (trans=cross, vestite=to dress) and the transsexual is that while both enjoy appearing as the opposite sex, one is quite happy with the sex they have (crossdressers) and the other believes they are in the wrong sex and seek to change to what they view as the proper sex (transsexuals).
A cross dresser who likes girls is not a lesbian, but a transsexual could be considered one.
Many crossdressers have families and children. Some thier spouses know about it, others do not. My personal feeling is that it is better that your spouse knows, even if they are not accepting of it, than to spring it on them several years down the road or after a couple of kids complicate matters. Spouses can be accomodating and encouraging, accepting to various limits, or mearly tolerant of the activity (you can do it, but don't involve them, they are not turned on by it.)
Sounds like you are a normal 15 year old crossdresser, learn all you can about it so that you can address the issue when you have to, and you will have to in the future. Mom and Dad especially will have to be addressed and the more information you have (no I;m not homosexual, I don't want a sex change) and the more informed argument you can muster will stand you in good stead.
And watch out, high heels can still turn your ankle if you're not careful!
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on 01 Jun 2009 at 1:15 pm
I was the same way at your age and am still today. I don't mind when I go shopping for girly stuff and letting the sales girls know its for me, I have tried on women underclothes over a hundred times in stores and thrift shops where many have seen me dressed. ther is nothing wrong with it and I have met a number of women who will dress me up.
http://www.flickr.com/photos/8999728@N06/557317493/
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on 01 Jun 2009 at 1:54 pm
do what makes you happy, if you enjoy girls clothes wear them. i think men who wear womans clothes are hot. there is nothing wrong with wearing feminine things, enjoy yourself you will make some woman happy someday. stay pretty
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on 01 Jun 2009 at 2:26 pm
It sucks doesn't it?! Our culture is threatened by sexual men.
I find it a great compliment of Nature, that men a lot of the times look hotter as women, than an actually woman.
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on 01 Jun 2009 at 2:53 pm
There is nothing wrong with cross-dressing, I think more guys should give it a try, actually I thing every guy should dress-up as a girl at least once just to see what it's like to be a girl. Plus, I wish society was more acceptable of men wearing women's clothes. When I was young I would fantasize about having sex with the hot girls in school too, but what I really wanted to do, besides getting in their panties, was to wear their panties & dress-up in their clothes. I did get the chance to get a few cute classmates to dress me up in their clothes o gender bender days & Halloween too. But what I really enjoyed were the womanless beauty pageants during my high school years and it always amazed me how much the girls wanted to help the guys dress-up as girls.
I don't think there's anything wrong with men wearing women's clothes & more men should try wearing women's clothes & spending a day or two as a woman.
jk
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