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I’m very frustrated because it seems like i can’t accept this alternate ego as part of who i am. I’m an guy and i am 20 years old and i have an interest in cross dressing in womens clothing. I love womens clothing because you get to wear nice clothing like dresses and skirts and you get to wear high heels. I love dressing up in a dress with make and a wig and some 5 inch stiletto heels. The stiletto heels makes me feel so sexy and beautiful and turned on. But my parents because i live with them they don’t want me to wear womens clothing they said they want a boy child not a girl child because they already have my little sister. They told me to either stop or get out of the house because they don’t accept the woman side of me. How could i let this alternate ego become as part of who i am ??

Your female alter-ego really is not part of who you are. Your alter-ego is a fake who will only harm who you really are. Please hear me out.

Cross-dressing is a fetish. Your brain is conditioned, hard-wired, to release dopamine and other neurotransmitters when you feminize yourself. Its like your brain interprets cross-dressing for contact with a female. It produces sensations of well-being, pleasure, sexual gratification and self-identity. They affect the reward centers of the brain, so it mimics the addiction response. You can’t stop it. You can’t stop your brain from releasing neurotransmitters. So you feel as if you need to cross-dress.

You really do not love women’s clothing. Really. You love the sensation the neurotransmitters produce. Your body craves the neurotransmitters and is using cross-dressing as a tool to get your brain to release more and more and more neurotransmitters. You can prove this to yourself with a simple little experiment. Put on your favorite women’s clothes. How do you feel? Wonderful, excited, sexy. Great, then masturbate. Your brain releases the most neurotransmitters when you have a sexual climax. How do you feel immediately after you masturbate in cross-dress? Disgusted? Why? Because you release so much neurotransmitters when you climax, that immediately afterwords you experience a temporary depletion of them. For a few minutes you feel like a noncross-dresser. The neurotransmitters just aren’t there. Don’t worry. In a few minutes you’ll be back to your old cross-dressing self.

The vast majority of cross-dressers are normal, healthy, intelligent, heterosexual men. They want to have a girl-friend and get married someday. And, they consider their condition as a problem. They limit their cross-dressing and keep in private, very private. That’s fine. Remember this mimics the addiction response, so by limiting their cross-dressing they are taking control of their lives. They end up living normal productive lives with limited cross-dressing.

So what if you don’t consider it a problem? What if you don’t limit your cross-dressing? Well these guys give in to their fetish. They want more and more and more (neurotransmitters). They push themselves to create a female alter-ego that is as feminine as possible. They use female hormones, and even some surgery because their alter-ego needs it. They give up any potential intimacy with a real female, and devote their lives to their alter-ego. Cross-dressing becomes a way of life - the center of his life. After a while their addiction response no longer responds as a sexual turn-on. It simply is who they are. They identify themselves as their alter-ego. They have lost their real selves, and replaced it with a fetish. How sad.

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brown tights like this:
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slouch boots (maybe uggs):
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and then just a head piece:
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is that good? i’m trying to save a few bucks and have things that won’t just go to waste, i already have the boots and the tights don’t cost much and i’d make the head piece. so is this cute? and would it actually look like an indian costume? or would it be a waste of money?

I think it’s good.

ok so we r wearing those short shorts from womens like ones that say cheer and then those tight leggings and a v neck shirt with a bra and stuffing inside with a wig does that sound ok for an outfit

Be sure and have some girl do your make up. I think you guys are going to be hilarious.
Be safe and have lots of fun!

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Okay. . . So I got a hair cut this weekend it looks like his except it’s black http://www.spirithalloween.com/wigs_womens-wigs/white-pageboy-wig/
my hair is naturally curl though i straighten it often. So it might end up looking like this (a bit longer i believe)if I take my time a do it nicely
http://www.halloweenmart.com/wecs.php?store=halloweenmar&action=display&target=CC70411
So, to the question any hair style for my hair straight/curly and i’d also like to know how I can make my hair like this or wavy.
http://www.buzznet.com/www/search/photos/JOSHUA%20THIRD/?id=24065821&p=6
http://www.buzznet.com/www/search/photos/JOSHUA%20THIRD/?id=24033021&p=7
Look here for more pictures of him… http://www.buzznet.com/www/search/photos/JOSHUA%20THIRD/
I was think that this:http://tigihaircare.us/tigi/bedhead/archive/2007/02/28/hook-up.aspx
product might work to make it like the picture above and to make it wavy/grungy/messy … any other products like this..?

Go to a hair stylist so they can cut and straighten your hair proficiently, it might be expensive butt its worth it. You wont have to straighten it in a couple of months. All you have to do every morning is wash it and dry it. You can all so go to a cosmetology school to get it done it will be less expensive.

this outfit http://www.partycity.com/product/costumes+%26+accessories/teen+girls/see+all/aqua+fairy+costume+teen.do?sortby=bestSellers

this wig http://www.partycity.com/product/costumes+%26+accessories/wigs/women%27s+wigs/blonde+babe+wig.do?sortby=bestSellers

and these shoes http://www.payless.com/store/product/detail.jsp?skuId=072825055&productId=65602&subCatId=cat220004&catId=cat10088&lotId=072825&category=&catdisplayName=Womens+

then the fake lashes dark lipstick and maybe a mask…. will it work?????

yes but instead of a mask use big sunglasses like on the cover of her cd

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Fistly, you may find this weird, but I’m going to try and pass as a girl for a day (partly as a dare and partly cos i want to see if i can actually do it, plus it should be fun), anyway I will be wearing something similar to this dress:

http://www.ezibuy.com.au/Womens/Urban/Dresses/Urban_Ditsy_Trim_Dress/40985.htm

It’s a similar colour and style, not exact..

what colour leggings should i go for? what style jacket might suit?
Also do you have any suggestions as to whether something could be worn underneath in order to cover my semi-hairy chest?

What colour nail polish? my options are a neutral pinky colour or a french manicure…

Heels or something flat?
I have a long brownish wig with a long fringe that gets swept to the side.
If you can provide links that would help tremendously, thanks!

…Do you think this is crazy??

kay, wow. haha
leggings- white
jacket- any
wear a cami (tanktop) underneath, also white
nail polish- any probly red
shoes- flat, your hurt yourself (:

wow yeah this is crazy and realllly weird, but good luck.

My 14 year old son came in the other night dressed as a female with make-up, a wig, a mini-skirt, in full womens dress. I am a very old fashioned, traditional person. I dont like girly boys or crossdressers. I want my son to be a masculine man. When he came in I shouted "what the hell do you think you are doing?" and he said it was girls night out at the club(has ID. I threatened to ground him for a year and he called me a close-minded redneck piece of sh*t that will never be worth anything. I gave him an old fashioned beating with my belt and it left a small mark on him. He called the police, and I was arrested that night, and my son said things like "stupid dumba$$ redneck is going to the cage with the other animals" all the way out the door. the police did nothing in response to my sons behavior. I am out of jail now, and there is no restraining order to my knowledge. what should I do? My son told me I will never change him. My wife(who I love dearly) and him currently live alone.

Let me see:

2 months ago you were asking of good clubs for YOU to go to-seeing that YOU were a Transvestite.

Quit trying to B.S. us.

I’ve got some very dark secrets because i am living a double life. I’m a guy who is a cross dresser in the privacy of my home. I’m actually straight I’m not gay. I’ve had took pictures of myself dressing up in my drag outfits. I would wear stuffs like a wig, skirts, long skirts with thigh high side slits and blouses and high heels. I also wear womens lingeries. I’ve have over 300 photos of myself in those photos. I’d store these photos on my laptop computer’s hard drive but i’ve recently heard of the east cleveland mayor’s case where his photos got leaked because he got hacked. I’m really scared that somehow my photos will get leaked. How could i make sure my photos don’t get leaked ? I’ve only keep on my computer and no where else ? Should i put it on a flash drive that as password protection ? I want to make sure my pictures don’t get leaked. I’m only 23 years old so i don’t want my social life ruined because i have lot of friends and some of the friends are girls.

Well… I must say, you are a little odd. But men go through these kind of phases. You had the right idea of getting a flash drive and putting a password on it. Make sure to protect your computer with anti virus software and be careful by choosing what sites you go to. Also, if a hacker must target you specifically in order to get those photos. So don’t piss off any computer geeks.