Okay guys follow me…. 5 months back I was taking a sew in hairstyle out of my head. It was so tangled I just said forget it and I cut off ALL MY HAIR! lol
Since then I have not put ANY Chemicals in my hair… I have been wearing lace front wigs (without gluing them on) when i leave the house.. and I let my hair out in the house and at night.
Now my hair has grown about 3 inches and that’s pretty fast for my hair… I think its becasue of not getting any relaxers!
So now, I don’t know rather I should get a perm, or keep going natural…
The only problem I have with going natural is the texture. My hair is really dry… what could i use on it to make it more moist?
what do you guys think? what should I do? what could I use?
also.. i heard that there was a "natural" hair chart to see what was your natral hair type… true?
There are many hair charts over the Internet, but most of them are derivatives of Andre Walker’s (Oprah’s stylist) hair chart. The thing about relaxers is that it can constantly break off your hair because the chemicals weaken it. This constant breakage is what keeps most black women from achieving long hair lengths (mid-back and waist-length). Your hair hasn’t grown faster, its that you don’t have a relaxer that keeps it weak and breaking off. So, by being natural you’ve been able to hold onto more growth than you normally would.
Most blacks on the hair chart are a 4a or 4b. There are always exceptions, but most blacks fall within that range. If you want longer, healthier hair then you should stay natural. If you don’t mind thin shorter hair that’s constantly breaking off then start relaxing. It’s up to you. There really isn’t a "natural" hair chart that I’ve seen. The general hair chart includes all hair types (straight, wavy, curly, kinky curly/kinky). 4a has coils that are pencil to coffee stirrer sized, and they can be wiry to the touch. 4b does not have a curl pattern, but instead the strands form a z-pattern.
For moisture I usually add a moisturizer and seal with a natural oil like olive oil. Besides a moisturizer, you can also leave-in a smalll amount of conditioner, or if your hair is very dry you can leave in a small amount of deep conditioner and then seal with a natural oil. There are many natural oils to choose from, so find something that’s good for your hair. You might find that your natural hair and relaxed hair need different products to stay healthy. Another thing you can do to infuse moisture in your hair is to baggy. Use a natural oil, moisturizer, conditioner, or deep conditioner and put it in your hair at night. Put one of those clear plastic conditioning caps over your hair and then put your regular hair scarf over it for added heat. When you wake up in the morning your hair will be wet or soggy. Experiment with different oils, moisturizers, or conditioners. I tried all three types and found that olive oil works for me. Do this consistently for a while and you’ll notice that your hair begins to retain more moisture. I had to baggy every day for two weeks before my hair began to retain moisture, so don’t expect results overnight. You should also deep condition once a week, and if your hair is extremely dry then you can do it twice a week. Sometimes I deep condition mine about 2Xs a week. Some people use S-curl activator on their hair. I’ve only used Hawaiian Silky cream activator and that worked well on my hair last summer. I don’t know anything about S-curl though, but you can ask other naturals.
Also, keep in mind that relaxers can affect your hair for a long while *after* you stop relaxing. So, if you’ve been relaxed for several years then you might not even be looking at your real hair texture. It can definitely change over the next few months. If it’s brittle, extremely dry, semi-straight or hard to curl, rough, and just nasty looking then it will most likely change. That change can happen over the course of a few months or a couple of years. My hair is changing at a slow pace, but my coils have gotten smoother, easier to curl, retains more moisture, and the coils have gotten much looser from when I first cut my hair. It’s still changing over a year after my last relaxer.
My advice is to visit as many hair websites, message boards, and hair journals as you can so you can learn how to take care of your natural hair and what to expect of it. Good luck.
You can search youtube for many videos. Many naturals have hair journals at fotki.com
http://www.motowngirl.com
http://www.nappturality.com
http://forum.blackhairmedia.com